This is where cleverness comes in. If a man says something to you, don’t take it as what you think it means. There’s a big chance that there is something much more to it. Let’s bring in an example. When a wife asks her husband if he’ll still love her if she gets fat, the obvious (and the safest) answer would be “yes, of course!”. The wife would get happy, and all will end well. What she doesn’t know is the other side of the answer. Of course, he’ll love you, but will he still be attracted to you? That’s the real thing to worry about.
The biggest taboo that prevails in the entire world is that men can’t express emotions. Many believe that being too emotional makes a guy less of a man. Sad, but you can’t change the way half the world thinks. Because of this under-rated trauma men have to face during their childhood, they make their feelings very secretive and lock up their emotions for the world to see. They’ve repressed their feelings in such a toxic way that it is crucial to make them let loose once in a while.
All men watch po*n. That is an undeniable fact. Upon asking, if your boyfriend or your husband denies watching porn, call the big fat liar out! There’s no downside to it whatsoever. For guys, watching porn is like reading the Twilight Saga for the girls. Sounds pretty harmless now, doesn’t it? Next time you catch him watching po*n, just chill. There’s nothing to worry about there.